Males who are not Dating Material

How many times have you started dating mister perfect only to discover a few years down the road he was mister so not perfect? I think we have all been there, done that and some of us women keep going right back for more of the same stuff. Here are three types of men you never want to date.

We need to break that cycle and learn how to not date these guys! Yes, I am fully aware that guys also face this dilemma but this page is for the women! The first step is breaking the cycle is to figure out what type of men are out there and then learn why they are not good to date.

This guy thinks he knows why the sun sets, why the boss is doing everything wrong and he even knows when the world will end. He will go to great links to tell you why you should apply for a new job, how you should dress, and how to decorate your house. He knows everything and when you first begin dating, it appears he is well educated and very knowledgeable about life.

After a while of dating, the woman soon realizes that things are not adding up and tries to tell him. That is when the battle begins. Most men who think they know everything think a woman is dumb.

Mr. Competitive

He is doing all types of sports, and he pushes himself to extreme to be the best he can be.

Women see the sexy abs and lust wants a piece of that action.

After awhile you see he is too far into himself.

Mr. Let me help you

This guy wants to help you every way possible. He offers to mow the lawn, help with getting you a different job and wants to make other changes in your life that seem on the level at first.

He is actually trying to mold you into his own likeness. He prefers his woman to be very dependent on him. This is a form of control.

Run for the hills if one of these guys comes around. No man should ever change you or control you and for that matter no woman should change a man into her likeliness either.

Cheating Songs

Those cheating songs may bring some folks laughter, while others cry. Yet to others it gives us empowerment after our heart begins to heal. I am one of those people who found empowerment in a cheating song after my husband cheated on me, many moons ago.

Patti Loveless released a song, ‘Blame it on your Cheating heart’ in 1993 and it was not until almost a decade later that this song became my own personal motto. I sung it loud, I sung it proudly, and it helped me get over my lying, cheating husband. With every note, I sung I pictured him. I knew what he threw away without thinking of the ramifications.

There are so many cheating songs that can be found on the Internet and most of these songs can be heard on the Internet. Some of these songs are funny, some are sad, and it seems as if they are in every genre of music. That is simply because cheating occurs in every culture!

Here are some well-known cheating songs that might help you feel better.

"Your cheating Heart" Patsy Cline

"Before He Cheats" by Carrie Underwood

"Blame it on Your Heart" by Patty Loveless
"Smile" by Lily Allen
"Does he love you (like he loved me)by Linda Davis & Reba McEntire

Goodbye to You" by Michelle Branch
"My Happy Ending" by Avril Lavigne
"You were meant for me" by Jewel

"You must not know bout me" by Beyonce

"Im not suppose to love you anymore" by Bryan White
Sexed up by Robbie Williams
"Your Cheatin Heart" by Hank Williams
"Oh Girlfriend" - Weezer.

"Don't Speak" by No Doubt
"Let it Be" by The Beatles
"I miss you" By Incubus

If you have ever been cheated upon, if so what is your favorite cheating song?

Committed Relationships

Are you tired of being the bad ‘guy’ in the committed relationship when it heads south? Perhaps the word commitment scares you and you high tail it out of the relationship when you hear those words. You are not alone as commitment scares many people out of good relationships on a daily basis. However, please know the word commitment means different things to everyone.

The number one reason marriages or committed relationships flounder or break entirely is the lack of commitment and open honest communication within the relationship. How is one to know what type of commitment the other is looking for if it’s not communicated about.

So exactly what is commitment? That answer depends on whom you ask the commitment question. The answer varies from male to female and even person-to-person. There are different answers between people who are dating long term, living together and marriages. About the only type of romantic relationship where there is no commitment is casual dating.

There seems to be several levels of commitment for couples. Couples who are dating long term but do not live together have one type of commitment, while couples who live together have another type. Each type of relationship has its own level of companionship but the one thing that ties them together is open honest communication. Without that, a relationship is nothing.

It’s hard for dating couples at times to reach that level of open communication. However hard it might be, it needs to be done or you will find your self in a troubled relationship which if not rectified does spell the end of the relationship.

Talk with the one you love and see what commitment means to them. Once you are on the same page so to speak, the relationship may get better.

Aviod Break Ups

Everyone who is in a romantic relationship wishes to feel as if he or she is a priority rather than an option. Once you let friends, family, hobbies, or work become more important than your significant other the relationship begins to flounder.

How do you save a relationship once it begins to crumble?

Sit down and have a heart to heart talk with the one you love. Begin spending quality time together.

Spending quality time together is very important, and quality time is much better than quantity in this case. Quality time is time when you are spent enjoying being together and sex is optional. There are many things a couple can do together that are free to low cost such as taking a walk together, sitting down and watching a movie or going to a concert in the park.

Quantity time is great if you get along, however a couple does need time apart from any relationship no matter how good it is. Taking time away from each other gives the couple a chance to be themselves. This does not mean that couples should spend days or weeks apart, but after an absence, it makes the heart grow fonder.

Remember

1.) Seeing your significant other once a month even thought you live close by and talk to her or him daily does not mean its quality time.

2.) Putting work, friends, hobbies, etc above your significant other does not cut it either. Even if your significant other tells you, they understand chances are they are simmering in the background.

3.) If you have a problem with your significant other chose to talk with them rather than talking to mutual friends.

4.) If you work a lot be sure to spend quality time with your significant other as you can. Do not allow 3 or 4 days to go by without physically seeing them or the relationship will go south.

5.) Sit down across from each other and talk, it will do wonders for your relationship.

Romance, its the little things

Keeping the romantic spark alive when the one you love goes out of town on business frequently is a necessity. With so many personal relationships requiring work related time apart from each other, the necessity of inventive thinking comes into play.

While some of the tips and tricks in this article may seem silly, they could very well keep alive that loving spark that tends to fade when part of your heart leaves town. If you are ever faced with the prospect of your loving partner, leaving town on business these could mean the difference to your sanity.

Keeping the romantic spark alive by calling the one you love. Frequent calls back to the one you love are most welcome because it shows you care. These do not need to be long calls; during the day, a few minutes here and there will do the trick, but there has to be at least a long call once a day just to talk about how the day went and to catch up. It keeps the two of you connected, and in tune with each other, because if one of you should begin to feel neglected then problems begin.

Keeping the romantic spark alive by sending quick emails or text messages to the one you love. Emails about funny jokes or a quick email just to say hey I am thinking about you does wonders as does text messages on the cell phone.

Keeping the romantic spark alive by taking couple time with the one you love. Spending time with the family is nice but alone together is vital to any dating relationship. When a dating couple spends time alone together, catching up on the week's events it brings you closer and keeps the relationship strong.
 
Remember the most important way to keep the spark burning with passion is to take the time for each other and be there for one another. Keeping the romantic spark alive is always important no matter if you are dating or married.

How to Avoid Being Clingy in a Loving Relationship

Avoiding the urge to be clingy in a relationship is hard, at times but how can we figure out how not be the clingy type? We all tend to be a bit needy at different times within your relationships but it is not fair to the other person if we act like a spoiled brat.

I am going to discuss why it is very important in a loving relationship not to be clingy and overwhelming. There is a huge difference between loving someone and controlling his or her actions, and control should never happen in a relationship.

The first thing you need to do in order to avoid being clingy is trust the other person totally. They are not like your ex, and will not do the same thing to you. Not every man or every woman is out to break your heart or steal your money. Relax and do not blow a good relationship because you feel selfish.

The second thing you need to do in order to avoid being clingy is realize that the one you love is in love with who you are. That will not change unless you continue to be selfish and that will only serve to drive that person away. Be yourself, the person they fell in love with and not the person who clings and is selfish.

  The third thing you need to do in order to avoid being clingy is keep yourself busy. When you feel like being clingy usually, it is because you are lonely and keeping busy will eliminate that need. Find a hobby, read a book, visit a friend, or clean your house from top to bottom do anything you can do to avoid being selfish.

The fourth thing you need to do in order to avoid being clingy is realize that one you love has a life which you are a part of. You are not that person's whole life and you should not consume them, for that only brings heartbreak to both of you. Do not try to consume their every waking moment of their life; they have jobs and a life outside of you.

The fifth thing you need to do in order to avoid being clingy is allow the other person to be themselves. You fell in love with that person because of whom they were, and if you cling to them for life support then you are changing them from whom you love. You should never want to change someone you love.

The sixth thing you need to do in order to avoid being clingy is realize that if you try to control the actions of the one you profess to love, you will lose that person. Let that person be him or herself. For if you try to control they will high tail it out of the relationship, as no one likes to be controlled.
There are a lost of reasons not to be clingy or selfish in a loving relationship and I hope I have convinced you not to be either.

Fairy Tale Love

Falling in love is the most wonderful feeling in the world, but it has to come naturally, if we try to rush love along or make it into something it is not, then it cannot be a fairy tale romance.

 

Love is never resentful, arrogant, or self-seeking it just is the perfect sensation in the world. Those people, who have this type of fairy tale romance, work hard at communication between each other, never allowing another to come between them in matters of the heart. Those who do not have it, often wonder why they do not have it, the answer is simple my friend, you simply have not met your soul mate yet and once you do, you will see yourself falling in love.

When you do find your soul mate, you will no doubt spend hours talking about everything and nothing, perhaps you will just sit quietly together and contemplate life lost in your own thoughts. You soon learn that with a soul mate, life is beautiful once more, and the dark clouds have seemed to fall away, and you wonder how it is that you have made it through life thus far, without them. That funny feeling in your stomach when you make eye contact means you are falling in love.

   
To be in love is the great feeling in the world, but to find that one true love which is a fairy tale romance is an indescribable feeling of utter bliss. It is like having sunshine every day, and knowing that when you do have a bad day there is someone there to hold you as you cry. It is also wonderful just thinking that someone besides your children thinks you hung the moon.

Trust me a fairy tale romance is not a figment of someone's imagination it does exist, and once you find it you never want to let it go.

Importance of Saying I Love You

Do you know why it is very important to say I love you to those people you love? Too many times, we just take it for granted that those we love know we love them so we feel as if we do not need to say it.

Those people we love need to know it everyday, because there may never be another time to say it. How would you feel if someone you loved died tomorrow and you did not take the time to tell him or her today that you loved him or her?

Perhaps if more couples told each other daily that they loved them, there would be less affairs, or divorces. When spouses or partners feel loved, it only makes sense that they would be happier within the relationship and not feel the need to cheat or leave. Therefore, it is imperative that you utter those three simple yet heartfelt words every day in a marriage or any type of relationship.


As parents, we often tell our babies we love them and we watch their smiles, yet most parents forget to tell their children that, as they get older. Instead, some parents show their love by buying all types of material goods, which is just showing the children that your love has a price tag.

My children often tell me they love me, because I have done that through out the years with them. I choose to take the time to say I love you to each of them very night, because I felt the need to. As my children grew into the teenage years it became difficult at times, we know how teens can get. However, I choose to do it 'Walton's style', Goodnight Amber, I love you, and I repeated it inserting her brothers' names.

They also heard it as they walked out the door to go to school each morning; in public schools, you never know when the next chance to say I love you will come so it was important to me. This not only let them know they were loved, but it began their day a bit better perhaps because they knew someone loved them.

Perhaps my boys as they will grow up and say the same to their children as their families grow, as my daughter is doing with her children now. This is a wonderful tradition to help spread the love in families and perhaps if more people said those words it would strengthen families. Lord knows this world could use less broken families.

We are all guilty of not saying I love you enough to those we do cherish at some point or another. When you take the time to utter those precious three words, it shows those people you love that they matter in this hard cruel world.

Even if you tell those you love everyday how you feel, it is important to show them just how much you love them by giving them a pat on the back as needed but hugs are a wonderful way to say hey I love you as well.

Creative Ways to say I love You

How many ways can you think of to say I love you to the one you married or to the special person you want to spend an eternity with without sounding redundant? The proof as they say is in the words and the actions of how you say I love you.

There are many ways to say I love you, including different languages so you can be creative but nothing beats the simple I love you baby! You can also say it with your actions everyday and that is the focus of this article for all of us who are so deep in love that it makes our heads spin

A simple unexpected touch on the arm or shoulder as the one you love in reading or doing housework shows much more then you think. It not only shows that person you are thinking about them, it says hey I love you as well. Next time your loved one is busy or looks frazzled give them a quick pat on the shoulder or a simple touch, it works wonders.

Some woman like flower arrangements but not all of us do, so why not grab a mini rose bush plant she can sit in a window and enjoy. As the rose bush blooms, she will be reminded just how much you love her, this also works for those men who enjoy flowers or plants.

Go have professional photos of yourself taken, and pick up a frame and just set it on the desk of someone you love. 

There are so many ways to say I love you, both verbally and non-verbally. Get up from your computer and go tell someone you adore, that you love him or her; it will bring a smile to both of your faces.