Aviod Serial Dating

Some women get right out there and begin dating while their heart is still reeling from the shock of the failed relationship. Instead of jumping back in the frying pan, find yourself once more. There are plenty of ways to keep yourself busy while your heart is mending.

1.) Get out and enjoy a new hobby. This works wonders for your sense of well being after you experience a breakup. Crafts are always a good idea!

2.) Read a book or better yet write one! Anyone can write a book and once completed they can publish it online.

3.) Go to church if you like that sort of thing or begin to volunteer at a local organization, which needs volunteers. Food banks, libraries, habitat for Humanity, and local community agencies can always use volunteers.

4.) Sit down and write out your feelings. This not only allows you to vent but seeing your words in black and white will show you why the relationship failed and why it’s better to leave it alone. Venting also is good to keep stress levels down.

5.) Figure out what it is that you enjoyed pre-him and do it again. That will help heal your heart and help you get over him.

6.) Join an online forum to talk with others about a hobby, work or simply to make new friends. The Internet is full of forums on a wide array of topics that can help on mend a broken heart.

7.) Throw yourself into work. If that does not keep you busy, I do not know what will.

8.) Get out there and start dating when you feel like it, but take the time to find yourself and figure out what you want out of a relationship before you jump back in.

9.) Pack his crap if anything is at your house and set it on the porch. Give him a few days to remove it and if he does not remove it, take it to Good Will.

10.) Get out into the world and have some fun. Go parasailing with friends, take a class at a community college, or simply go out for a few drinks with the girls.

Do not sit and cry over that man. Chances are you’ve already cried enough over his antics and wasted enough time that way.